5 Signs Your Recovery Sucks (And How to Fix It)

If you were to tell me a year ago that training less would make me stronger, I would have scoffed at such a silly idea. How can less exercise make you stronger? I would never have thought training intensely 1-3 times a week (instead of 6-7 times) would not only improve my strength and performance but also improve my life all-around. I use to think feeling sore and stiff was part-and-parcel of the journey. I never understood the importance of recovery, from physical to mental. After all, there is no separation of mind and body.

Most people would rather just crush themselves in the gym day after day because that’s how you see results, right?

Maybe not.

The truth is, no matter how hardcore your fitness routine is, how often you exercise, or how on-point your diet is, if your recovery sucks, your health, energy, and gains will suffer.

And not-so-great recovery may be the reason why… 

  • You aren’t making gains in the gym
  • You’re not losing those last few pounds—maybe even gaining some
  • You’re exhausted all the time
  • You seem to be constantly battling soreness, stiffness, and recurring injuries

In this post, we’ll address five common signs that you should rethink your recovery routine and two easy fixes that will help you recover faster today.


What is Recovery, Anyway?

Most people’s definition of “recovery” is probably something like this: 

Recovery is when I’m not sore anymore. It’s when I can exercise again and feel pretty good doing it.

So boom–you roll out of bed, shake out the legs and they don’t feel too bad. Your shoulders don’t feel tight or restricted. Your eyes aren’t overly droopy. So, off to the gym you go. 

You’re recovered, right?

Not exactly. Those are just arbitrary statements about how your body feels.

Recovery, in the scientific sense, is the body’s ability to restore its physical and mental processes. 

So, the goal of recovery isn’t to go to bed sore, wake up “recovered”, and get back to working out at 50% effort. The goal of recovery is to refresh and restore your muscles, tissues, and ligaments so you can meet and exceed your previous performance. 

Now, that is the true definition of “gains.”

So, now that you understand what recovery actually is, let’s discuss how to know if your recovery routine is holding back your performance.

5 Signs Your Recovery is Sub-Par

1. Your Performance Is Plateauing or Declining

If your athletic performance has stopped improving despite proper training and nutrition, it might be time to take a look at your recovery routine.

When your recovery sucks, your training is ineffective, and you wind up wasting your time and energy. You’re basically training for the sake of training, with no change or improvement in your performance.

It’s like you’re a hamster on a wheel, running at full speed but going nowhere.

Under-recovery means that you never get faster, better, or stronger—despite putting in hours of work.

That’s the definition of insanity, right?

The key is to recover properly so your body can perform at its best and your results won’t level off.

2. You’re Gaining Weight Despite Good Efforts

When you overtrain or don’t properly recover between workouts, your body tends to go into what’s called “fight or flight” mode. 

This state is marked by an over-activation of the sympathetic nervous system, during which the adrenal glands are triggered to churn out stress hormones like cortisol.

“Fight or flight” is a useful physiological state if you need to, say, run away from a hungry tiger in the jungle. But when it comes to your recovery, it’s not ideal.

It can be especially harmful to your waistline if you have elevated cortisol levels day after day from the stress of over-exercising and under-recovering.

The chronically elevated cortisol you get from over-exercising and under-recovering can even contribute to weight gain in a number of ways, like:

When you rest and recover the right way, you reduce the amount of stress on your body, lower your cortisol levels, and shift your nervous system to a parasympathetic “rest and digest” state. 

And in this parasympathetic state, you can really reap the benefits of your training.

During times of recovery, your body signals a number of repair mechanisms to take place, as well as telling your thyroid and metabolism to up-regulate.

In that way, recovery actually allows you to build muscle and burn fat more easily, and isn’t that the goal? 

3. You’re Excessively Tired or Fatigued

If you’ve ever done a soul-crushing workout, fatigue and exhaustion probably follow. Many people love that feeling of “accomplishment” when they work their butts off at the gym, and after they’ve felt the burn, they proceed to passing out on the couch in the middle of a Netflix show, jeans still on, drool sliding down their face.

OK, that’s a bit dramatic. But you get the point. Post-training fatigue is normal… to some extent. 

What’s not normal, however, is when fatigue starts to creep into your daily life.

When it becomes impossible to get out of bed. When you start reaching for that third or fourth cup of coffee to get through the workday. 

When you get home from a normal day of work, but feel completely exhausted. 

When you’re unmotivated to exercise because you’re so tired. And in very extreme cases, when you’re unable to fall asleep at night (aptly referred to as being “tired but wired”).

This extreme fatigue can be linked to poor athletic recovery and may be related to cortisol levels (mentioned above) being elevated for long periods of time. 

After a while, your receptors become less sensitive to cortisol and your body’s energy creation system (called your hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal axis or HPA Axis) stops functioning properly. This leaves you feeling exhausted and burnt out.

Not exactly the recipe for peak human performance.

4. Low Heart Rate Variability

This might be surprising, but a healthy heartbeat is actually a bit irregular, meaning each beat doesn’t necessarily happen at the same interval.

For example, instead of beating like this:

lub-dub … lub-dub … lub-dub … lub-dub …

A healthy heart will actually beat like this:

lub-dub ……. lub-dub .. lub-dub …. lub-dub …

How we measure the changes in the heartbeat’s rhythm is called Heart Rate Variability (HRV). 

Measuring your HRV is one of the best ways to know if your body is stressed, and generally speaking, the higher your HRV (measured from 0-100 using HRV devices), the more recovered and ready to train you are.

For example, when the parasympathetic nervous system is activated, it releases acetylcholine to induce a low heart rate and a state of relaxation. Your HRV will be highest at this point, so a high HRV indicates a low state of stress.

On the contrary, if you’re overtrained, not well-rested, or sleep-deprived, the healthy beat-to-beat variation in your heart rhythm begins to diminish, thereby indicating a low HRV.

Even if you don’t have an HRV tracking device, you can still experience this phenomenon by finding your pulse on your neck or your wrist. 

You should feel that the longest intervals take place when you exhale (parasympathetic), and the shortest intervals when you inhale (sympathetic).

In other words:

  • A high HRV (~90+ on a device) means the intervals between heartbeats are highly variable, which indicates that you’re well-rested and in a recovered state.
  • A low HRV (<60 on a device), or an HRV that jumps around from day to day, means the variability in your heartbeat intervals is low, which could indicate you’re overtrained and not recovered.

Tracking HRV is a great way to give you solid insight into how your body is actually recovering, despite how you might feel.

5. You’re Constantly Sore, Stiff, or Injured

Yes, we all know that one personal trainer who often used the ultra-motivating phrase “no pain, no gain.” While that might be true for a spry 15-year-old, the last thing most of us want to deal with as we age is excessive soreness, stiffness, or recurring injuries.

Let’s discuss muscle soreness, specifically.

DOMS (delayed onset muscle soreness) is a bit of a mystery to scientists but is thought to be related to an inflammatory response that increases the sensitivity of nerve endings in connective tissue in the muscles. 

Typically, DOMS will rear its ugly head 1-2 days after a workout, causing soreness, pain, stiffness, and in some cases increased risk of injury.

Despite what Personal Trainer Pete told you in the gym, there’s no evidence that muscle soreness reflects increased muscle damage or hypertrophy (aka better “gains”). 

In fact, research has shown that both high- and low-soreness training programs deliver similar gains in muscle mass.

In other words, soreness is not a requirement for increasing performance or muscle gains.

While a little soreness never hurt anyone, being constantly sore, stiff, or injured is not only annoying and painful, it could also mean that your body needs a break from hard exercise. 

Instead of pushing through the pain, what you might actually need is more active or passive recovery. Try foam rolling, stretching, or light movement to break up the inflammatory buildup in your muscles.

Bonus Tips ~

If you know me you know I am a big fan of meditation and breathwork. That is because the breath has a profound affect on both the mind and the body (remember there is no separation). Our breath affects every layer of our breathing, this is why I often say “change your breath ~ change your life”.

Learning to master our breath can be the difference between an anxiety-filled day or a day filled with peace, yes its that powerful.

  • Slow down your breathing. During exercise or even just at regular intervals throughout the day try to slow your breath down. Our breaths should be long, deep and smooth. You should not be able to hear your breathing. This is a great way to train the body to adapt to lower levels of oxygen and higher levels of Co2 (Co2 is not a waste gas but that’s for another post).
  • Spend some time in meditation every day. Meditation does not have to be a cross-legged pose in the middle of a mountain. Just find a peaceful place, sit up straight or lie down and begin to watch your breaths. Allow your mind to dissociate from thinking (You’re not trying to not think, you simply allow thoughts to come and go).

I have many videos to demonstrate the above techniques.
You can find them on my YouTube or Instagram pages.


In summary, if you’re experiencing any of the following, you might want to rethink the importance of your recovery routine:

  • Plateaus in performance
  • Resistance to weight loss
  • Fatigue
  • Low Heart Rate Variability 
  • Frequent soreness, stiffness, or injuries

The solution? Call me 😉, but… Reduce your training volume. Incorporate more active or passive recovery days. Sleep in. Maybe take a few weeks off, if you’re really feeling icky.

One Love
Tidy Dave

2 thoughts on “5 Signs Your Recovery Sucks (And How to Fix It)

  1. Whew
    It’s a lot yo take in but very interesting. I have learnt lots of new facts about recovery and over training….. Something to think about in the future.

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